If you want to be a totally unconventional personal (and I suggest you should), then allow the Spirit of the Lord to lead you in everything.
I will remember the works of the LORD: surely I will remember thy wonders of old. I will consider all your works and meditate on all your mighty deeds.” Psalm 77:11-12
Little is known of Jabez. The scripture tells us Jabez was more honorable than his brothers, and his mother named him Jabez saying, “Because I bore him with pain”